Who were you, Coronel Ramón Bravo? The curlicued bronze plaque behind me at Recoleta Cemetery states you were born smack in the middle of the 19th century and left us the year after World War I began. It lists your part in the campañas of Paraguay and Entre Rios and various combates. But it doesn’t say what made you laugh and cry and tremble with rage. Beneath your straitjacket uniform, who were you? Who was in your heart as you set off for battle? How would your family have described you? Did you see close friends die in combat? What kept you awake at night? What fed your soul?
You become real to me here, stepping out of the stone, veins and wrinkles and all. I feel you have come to tell your story in some way, to be remembered, as you glide ghostlike between two worlds.
I was born in Montreal in 1967, grew up in England and live between London and Buenos Aires. Like many, I came to Buenos Aires to dance tango and fell under the spell of this city where strangers talk to you, tango music seeps on to the streets and the ornate crumbling buildings speak of grander times. I love writing and crafting words – I've worked as a sub-editor for more than 20 years – and taking photographs.
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Kristine, you think this is my coded valentine to Coronel Ramón Bravo?! Well, I suppose it was written on 14 February…
Julie-Anne, in my crazy busy days as a working mum, your blog posts transport me for a few moments to a ghostly, nostalgic place of deep feeling and reflection. Looking at your photos and reading your stories about them opens up a fragile flower in my heart. The petals fall apart and nectar drips out. Thank you for the blessing of your art.
What a sensitive, heartfelt comment, dear Aja. So grateful for your words. So grateful we’re friends.
Eerie and beautiful.
Thank you, Sissel.